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    Anniversary Gift Guide

    Need ideas for your next Anniversary Gift? Our list contains both traditional and modern gifts for each year of your anniversary. But it doesn't always have to be a special occasion to give the gift of jewelry. Not sure what to get? Ask our staff at Gray's Jewelers Bespoke for some great gift ideas! Contact us today.

    Anniversary Gifts - gold jewelry, diamond jewelry, and pearls

    Celebrate Every Year with Meaningful Gifts That Last

    An anniversary isn’t just a date on the calendar—it’s a milestone, a memory, and a chance to honor the story you’re writing together. Whether it’s your first year or your fiftieth, each anniversary deserves to be marked with a thoughtful gift that captures the spirit of your journey.

    Below, you’ll find our Anniversary Gift Guide—a year-by-year table of meaningful gift ideas, drawn from tradition and modern trends, and with a special focus on jewelry. It’s designed to inspire, whether you want to honor classic customs or try something new.

    How to Use This Guide

    • Traditional Gift:
      These are time-honored presents associated with each year of marriage (think paper for the 1st, silver for the 25th). Traditional gifts have roots in centuries-old customs, and are perfect for those who love symbolism and nostalgia.
    • Modern Gift:
      These suggestions update the tradition for today’s couples, often including more practical or contemporary ideas (like clocks, appliances, or new metals). Modern gifts can feel fresh and unexpected, while still honoring the occasion.
    • Jewelry Gift:
      We’ve highlighted a special gemstone or precious metal for many anniversaries, offering a timeless and elegant way to commemorate the year. Whether set in a ring, necklace, or bracelet, jewelry brings lasting beauty and meaning to your celebration.

    Browse the table, explore your options, and remember: the best anniversary gift is one that comes from the heart—and reminds your partner just how much you cherish the adventure you share.

    How long have you been married?

    • 1-5 years
    • 6-25 years
    • 26-50 years
    • 51-80 years

    Gifts for Newlyweds 1-5 years

    Year Jewelry Gift Traditional Gift Modern Gift
    1st Gold Paper Clocks
    2nd Garnet Cotton China
    3rd Pearls Leather Crystal or Glass
    4th Blue Topaz OR Blue Zircon Fruit or Flowers Appliances
    5th Sapphire Wood Silverware

    Gifts for the Truly Devoted 6-25 years

    Year Jewelry Gift Traditional Gift Modern Gift
    6th Amethyst Candy or Iron Wood
    7th Onyx or Yellow Sapphire Wool or Copper Desk Sets
    8th Tourmaline Bronze Linens or Lace
    9th Lapis Lazuli Pottery Leather
    10th Diamond Jewelry Tin or Aluminum Diamond Jewelry
    11th Turquoise Steel Fashion Jewelry
    12th Jade Silk Pearls
    13th Citrine Lace Textiles or Furs
    14th Opal Ivory Gold Jewelry
    15th Ruby Crystal Watches
    16th Peridot Silver Hollowware
    17th Furniture
    18th Cat’s Eye Chrysoberyl Porcelain
    19th Aquamarine Bronze
    20th Emerald China Platinum
    21st Iolite Brass or Nickel
    22nd Spinel Copper
    23rd Imperial Topaz Silver Plate
    24th Tanzanite Musical Instruments
    25th Silver or Tsavorite Silver Silver

    Gifts for the Golden Years 26-50 years

    Year Jewelry Gift Traditional Gift Modern Gift
    26th Original Pictures
    27th Sculpture
    28th Orchids
    29th New Furniture
    30th Pearl Pearl Diamond
    31st Timepieces
    32nd Conveyances
    33rd Amethyst
    34th Opal
    35th Emerald Coral Jade
    36th Bone China
    37th Alabaster
    38th Beryl or Tourmaline
    39th Lace
    40th Ruby Ruby Ruby
    41st Land
    42nd Improved Real Estate
    43rd Travel
    44th Groceries
    45th Sapphire Sapphire Sapphire
    46th Original Pottery
    47th Books
    48th Optical Goods
    49th Luxuries of Any Kind
    50th Gold Gold Gold

    Gifts for Soulmates 51-80 years

    Year Jewelry Gift Traditional Gift Modern Gift
    55th Emerald or Alexandrite Emerald Emerald
    60th Diamond Diamond Diamond
    65th Blue Sapphire Blue Sapphire Star Sapphire or Gray Sapphire
    70th Platinum Platinum Platinum
    75th Diamond or Sapphire Diamonds or Diamond-like Diamond or Gold
    80th Ruby

    Not every year has an official gemstone or jewelry gift, but any year is a great year for jewelry!

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